The Secrets to Communication in the Twenty-Tweens

By Kathleen Hosfeld

Working with a series of nonprofits in 2010, it came home to me that when clients say they want to work on “communication,” they are categorizing activities by the tools used rather than their purpose. Activities that utilized a web site, email, social media, advertising, public relations, or media relations were all grouped as communications, and approached from the same perspective.  The perspective from which these organizations viewed communication was that of “getting the word out.”

“Getting the word out” – essentially one-way communication – is in fact only one method of communication. Although important, it is possibly the least powerful. We call this either information sharing or information broadcasting. It’ the kind that is conveyed in newsletters and websites.  The organization writes and publishes information; the recipient does not revise or shape what is sent or published. At times, the information is shared purely for “awareness.” A reader or recipient is a “consumer” of the information.

In dialogue, by contrast, information is exchanged, and typically something new is created by the parties to the dialogue. Each party brings pieces to the conversation, they put those pieces together, and a new whole emerges.  The information or feedback shared creates something new, beyond information exchange alone. This type of communication is the type that takes place in work groups, teams and in stakeholder engagement.

Communication that seeks to create cultural or behavioral change is a third type of communication, and it begins with a point of view about the change that is desired. Behavior change and cultural change are two distinctly different outcomes, but the element of persuasion is needed to generate both, and this distinguishes this type of communication from pure information sharing, which is more neutral in tone.  Fundraising and development in nonprofits uses persuasive communication.  Many nonprofits’ mission is to create social change, and they do this with a form of communication called social marketing (not the same as social media marketing).  When we call this marketing, we imply a commercial exchange or money. However, in common parlance people apply the term “marketing” to any type of communication that intends to persuade. In the case of behavior change, the persuasive speech must include a call to action that is specific and intentional.

One of the secrets to effective communication is to recognize the appropriate use of these three different forms. Organizations must recognize that exclusive reliance on “get the word out” communication only works in markets where the audience has no other choices. For most for-profit and non-profit organizations those days ended in the 1960s. If you have competitors or alternatives, your ability to use dialogue and persuasive speech is a critical competence.

Effective programs generally blend all three types of communication together.  Increasingly, organizations are using dialogue as a way to improve their persuasive capacity and to discover unmet needs of their constituents. By engaging stakeholders, customers or donors in dialogue, they better understand what the other needs for a positive exchange.  This underscores the most important component – the ultimate secret – of communications: listening.

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3 Responses to “The Secrets to Communication in the Twenty-Tweens”

  1. Matt Wesley Says:

    Kathleen, Well said. I very much appreciated the distinctions you made here. After reading this, I am thinking more about the communication approaches I am using in my business. At some point, I would love to hear more about your insights on the relationship between persuasive communication and dialog. In the meantime, thanks for such a thoughtful piece.

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  3. Hosfeld & Associates Inc. Says:

    Hi Matt: Just posted a new article with more thoughts on dialogue. http://blog.hosfeld.com/strategy/dialogue-the-conversational-nature-of-marketing-and-strategy/
    Will address the interrelationships of persuasion and dialogue in a future article. Thanks!

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